Hey ya, it seems that we have gone pretty hiatus from our last posts/update. That's because we're now doing some preparation in the background.
The next event for us is the pre-wedding photoshoot, then the main event which is the Actual Day next (Tea ceremony and Dinner)
Technically we have less than a year to our big event next year. So our preparation now is to get contacts and details on Dai Kum Jie (Bride's Chaperone) and photo/videographer on our actual day.
I'm also gathering some information on what to props to prepare for our pre wedding photo shoot and also the locations.
I'm really glad I have my girls for this, I'm also in the midst of looking out for bridesmaids dress and groomsmen' accessories.
Since I have yet to confirm any, I'll be glad if anyone can give me some contact details for :
- Dai Kum Jie
- Photo/Videographer
or any suggestions on the pre wedding photo shoot's (preferably within Klang Valley):
- Props
- Location
Much appreciated!
-Jo-
We finally got it legalized earlier this month! It was an exciting and nervous moment at the same time! Someone cast confusion on me. So much anticipation for that one blessed day. So let us share with you our ROM(Registration of Marriage) experience.
This is a MUST step if you want to be lawfully recognized as husband and wife.
You can read all about the procedure before the ROM here
That day, we arrived earlier than the time slot given - they did not mention how early before the time slot we have to be there - it's better to be early than late. So we waited until they began calling out the numbers according to the time slot given.
Do be attentive to the numbers that they called out to. They will call for twice, then they will proceed to the next couple. So you will lose your time there. Anyway, no worries, you'll still be able to proceed, after the couple is done that is.
There's only 2 main steps.
1. After your number being called, you will proceed to the counter, where you will need to provide them the couple's MyKad and both witnesses' MyKad. Then you'll sign some documents which verify that the stated documents are correct. Please make sure that the names and IC numbers are all accurate.
2. You will then proceed to the designated room, where there will be an officer who will solemnize the event.
I came to know that we can actually opt for either Mandarin or English. The officer then proceeds with the script of the language we chose.
Here's what to expect: (I forgot which event comes first)
- There will be a point where the officer will ask if you will take your other half as your rightful partner, you will need to reply "I do"
- There will be some oath taking
- Signing, at least 3-4 documents.
- Ring exchange
Then you're done! You're free to take pictures in the room but be considerate of the next couples who might need to use the room.
Don't worry about taking photos in the room, there are plenty of nice scenery out there around the temple to take photos.
Just wander around, you have all the time to yourselves and if you want to, you can also pray in the temple as newlywed for some blessings.
-JO
Well, technically this part is not important. It's really optional. Really.
You can always go for ROM in any formal clothes that you feel comfortable with. The rules states that on the day of registration for both the couples and witnesses:
- Dress neatly
- No sandals or slippers
- No jeans or shorts
- No T-shirt
The guy's dress up is pretty simple (as usual). Just a formal shirt, a long pants and a shoe. Of course, if you want to look good, dress formal.
For the lady, as I've seen many, they wore a white dress - no particular colour code or dress code applies besides the above "No" rules. You don't need to wear a bride's gown. I feel that's a bit exaggerated and out of place. No harm anyway, but if you do wear that, may I suggest that you have the matching make up and accessories? :)
As for me, I wore a white dress.
and to match with it, I brought along my handmade flower bouquet, made of ribbons!
I had manicure sessions the day before the ROM and I finally got to do the design that I love so much for this occasion!
And a hairdo. I am not good at doing this by myself. Look at my mess.
Regardless, these are just some ideas of what you can do for preparation. Like I've said earlier, it's optional. You can do more than that or neither at all.
The final preparation,
BE MENTALLY PREPARED!
You're going to be someone's wife/husband! Just exaggerating. Don't worry, just enjoy the day!
